HELP: "I'm very shy to initiate things"

By Faeza
10 February 2017

Anonymous from Kroonstad writes:

I’m a 31-year-old woman

who has a child. At times, I feel

like asking my man to make love

to me but I’m shy. Normally he

is the one who initiates things.

I just don’t know where to start.

Sis Naledi answers:

You can learn to play with

him when relaxing. Start

touching different areas

of his body and talk about what

you like and where you would

like him to touch you. You can

start on a lighter note, like kissing

and massaging him. With time,

you will feel comfortable around

him and be able to initiate it.