HELP: "I’ve been dating a married man for 15 years"

By Faeza
25 January 2017

Anonymous from Tembisa writes: 

I’ve been dating a married

man for 15 years. His wife

is diabetic and has kidney failure.

I have a three-year-old baby boy

with him. My problem is that we

haven’t made love for two years

because he always has excuses.

I really love him. Please help.

Sis Naledi answers: 

This married man has not

shown you any commitment

in 15 years and for some

reason he seems to have lost the

romantic love he had as you say it.

What kept you together may not

be there anymore and he may be

with you now out of guilt.