HELP: "My boyfriend is back with his ex"

By Faeza
25 July 2016

Anonymous from Temba writes:

I have been in love with my boyfriend for a year. But now he is back with his ex-girlfriend. I miss him so much but I don’t want to call him first. What must I do?

Sis Naledi replies:

When you spend time with someone, you get used to having him around you and

separation becomes very painful. That is normal and should not be seen as a problem. However, decisions cannot be made based on that discomfort. What is important is

the reason why you separated and whether you think that would have changed when you get back together again. If he has moved back to his ex, why would you bother calling him?