HELP: "My girlfriend cheated on me, then she dumped me"

By Faeza
26 May 2017

Anonymous from Khakhanwa writes:

My girlfriend cheated on me and I found out. After I forgave her, she dumped me. Just

as I was moving on with my life, she found out that she was pregnant and came back. I don’t know if I should trust her.

Sis Naledi responds:

It’s difficult to trust again when a person has betrayed you, but it’s not impossible

to regain the trust. It may help to address your fears with her. For you to trust her again, you have to work together and she has to understand the impact of her behaviour on your trust. Talk to her and try to understand what made her to feel okay with seeing another man whilst you were still dating. This may help you understand the situation better.