HELP: "My man is bad at bonking, so I slept with another man"

By Faeza
02 June 2017

Anonymous from Bethal writes:

I’m 30 and my boyfriend is 34. I really love him a lot but he’s not that good in bed. He recently asked me to marry him and I said yes but now I’m having second thoughts.

I slept with another friend of mine and it was good but I don’t love him. Should I leave my boyfriend for the guy who’s really good in bed or should I stay with my boyfriend?

Dr Eve responds:

If you really love your boyfriend how can you sleep with another man? Being ‘bad’

in bed definitely could be a reason not to marry someone. But if you love the person, you will love spending time teaching him how to be ‘good’ enough for you in bed. I think you are not ready for marriage.