HELP: "My man keeps telling me about his wife"

By Faeza
26 June 2017

Anonymous from Randburg.

My lover has been separated with his wife for about three years. But they still have not divorced and they have two children. He always complains about being ill-treated by his estranged wife. Although I love him so much, I told him that I don’t want to be his second

best. Please advise.

Sis Naledi responds:

You may love a person but not have a relationship with them because it is not the right time or person for you. Do not make decisions with your heart alone, let your mind to help

you as well.bad is their marriage is and still hang on it while you are a side chick who

provides comfort and relief. You are going to be used emotionally and sexually in that relationship. Let him go and deal with his family matters without you being the ‘psychologist’ or ‘social worker’ for him.