HELP: "My man only calls me when he needs money or airtime"

By Faeza
07 April 2017

Anonymous from Kwa Zulu Natal writes:

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for eight months but his actions are confusing me. When we are together, he is very sweet and claims to love me but it’s a totally different story when we are apart. He only phones me or sends me an SMS when he needs money or airtime. Do you think this guy really loves me?

Sis Naledi responds:

You do not need to buy a man’s love by giving him your money. If he loves you, he needs to be sensitive to what makes you feel loved and appreciated. He sounds like an insensitive

partner who does not care about your feelings but his own interests and feelings. Being

nice when he is with you is just to bribe you so you can give him more money.