HELP: "My man told me that I am his makwapheni"

By Faeza
13 April 2017

Anonymous from Mahikeng writes:

I started going out with a guy from my hometown, who’s been treating me like a princess.

Two weeks after we started dating, he told me he was seeing someone. I then asked why he

can’t leave the other woman. He said it’s not easy leaving someone you have dated for a long time.  I don’t know what to say as he makes me happy.

Sis Naled responds:

The longer you accept that there is another woman, he may not have a reason to make up his mind. Better you bite the bullet and let him decide on which woman to be with before you get used to him. Rather lose him now than starting a relationship that will lead you to

more heartache and health risks.