HELP: "My man was a womaniser and I don't think he has changed"

By Faeza
11 April 2017

Anonymous from Springs writes:

I have a new boyfriend but I find it difficult to trust him. He has a reputation of being

a womaniser. He tells me he has changed and that he loves me.

Sis Naledi responds:

A person’s history gives you an idea of their pattern of behaviour. People do change

when they make a decision to do so, but it is gambling with your life to trust him. Rather take time to see for yourself if he has really changed, you will notice certain behaviours

if he is not honest. Don’t make excuses or justify what you’ll see.