HELP: "My man's rough bonking is making my sex life a nightmare"

By Faeza
23 June 2017

Anonymous from Soweto writes:

My boyfriend likes having rough sex and he’s doesn’t even take off all his clothes ?rst.

Whenever I ask why, he says it’s because he misses me so much when he’s away and can’t wait to have me. I can’t deal with it any more. His roughness is making my sex life hell.

Dr Eve responds: 

Sex is supposed to be pleasing to both people in a relationship. This man sounds selfish and self-absorbed. A man who doesn’t listen to you or respect you won’t only make your sex life hell, but also the rest of your life. You need to talk to him. If his behaviour doesn’t

change, then consider dumping him.