HELP: "My woman says I am childish"

By Faeza
10 April 2017

Anonymous from Gugulethu writes:

I’m a 28-year-old man. My problem is that I’m dating a woman who is the same age as me,

but things are not going well in our relationship. If I don’t call her, she won’t call me. She sometimes doesn’t even reply to my WhatsApp messages. When I ask her why, she accuses me of acting like a child.

Sis Naledi responds:

It appears that communication between the two of you is not flowing. Sit down and be open with each other. Talk about how you want to relate and what makes each one of you happy in the relationship. If there are disagreements, spell them out. Learn to talk through issues and resolve them instead of sulking and not talking to each other.