HELP: "Will boyfriend feel that I have been bonking another man"

By Faeza
29 September 2016

Anonymous from Rustenburg writes:

Is it true that your boyfriend can feel that you have slept with another guy when you have sex with him. Will there be a difference?

Dr Eve responds

Your boyfriend won’t physically be able to feel that another man has penetrated you. Your private part does not change every time you have a new sexual partner and it also

does not change with the amount of sex you have. However, if you do not use a condom with another lover and are not on birth control, then your boyfriend is at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV, and having a child who

he believes is his. So look after your heart and your sexual health.