HELP: "Will my man notice if I sleep with someone else?"

By Faeza
22 June 2017

Anonymous from Randburg writes:

Is it true that your boyfriend can feel that you have slept with another guy when you have sex with him. Will there be a difference?

Dr Eve responds:

Your boyfriend won’t physically be able to feel that another man has penetrated you. Your private part does not change every time you have a new sexual partner and it also does not change with the amount of sex you have. However, if you do not use a condom with another lover and are not on birth control, then your boyfriend is at risk of contracting

sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV, and having a child who he believes is his. So look after your heart and your sexual health.