HELP: "Young lover doesn’t satisfy me like my 55-year-old sugarmama"

By Faeza
08 March 2017

Anonymous from Bloemfontein writes:

I have two girlfriends. My

sex life with the 23-year-old is bad,

while it is great with the 55-year-old.

I will soon pay lobola for my younger

girlfriend. What must I do?

Dr Eve answers:

Your girlfriend is very young

and may just be sexually

ignorant and shy, or a victim of

childhood abuse. Give her space to

discuss her sexual fears and joys with

you. I hope you use condoms with

both of them.