Anonymous from Bloemfontein writes:
I have two girlfriends. My
sex life with the 23-year-old is bad,
while it is great with the 55-year-old.
I will soon pay lobola for my younger
girlfriend. What must I do?
Dr Eve answers:
Your girlfriend is very young
and may just be sexually
ignorant and shy, or a victim of
childhood abuse. Give her space to
discuss her sexual fears and joys with
you. I hope you use condoms with
both of them.
