I’m unfaithful

By Faeza
21 November 2015

Question: I’m unfaithful

I am in love with two men and I don’t want to hurt anyone of them. Please help.

Anonymous, Sebokeng

Sis Naledi Answers:  You are already hurting both of them by lying to them. But mostly, to yourself as you are not at peace with what you are doing. Why do it if you are not happy? It is a dangerous game and it’s only a matter of time before it blows on your face and the consequences will be much worse than what you are avoiding. If none of the two men is good enough for you, then both of them shouldn’t be in your life. It is important for you to understand what you expect from a relationship; otherwise you may never be happy with anyone.