My girlfriend looks down on me

By admin
03 September 2013


My girlfriend is dating another man and acts as though she’s not in a relationship with me. When this guy phones her, she struggles to talk to him and says she’s busy with something. We’ve been together for three years. I have apart-time job and have been struggling to find full-time work, and for this reason, she looks down on me. What can I do?


It’s clear that this lady is no longer interested in your relationship. The fact that you’re struggling shouldn’t be an issue – if you really love a person, financial constraints are not a barrier. No man can put up with a woman who cheats on him. From your description, it seems that you are wasting your time with this girl. The more time you lose the less chance you have of finding a woman who will love and respect you.