Take time out

By Faeza
24 November 2015

Dr Eve

Question: What’s nice about sex?

I have had sex like five times and I didn’t enjoy it. I don’t understand what could be nice about it. What could be wrong with me?

Anonymous, Tembisa


Take time alone. Spend time exploring your own sexuality. Fantasise, imagine anything you want, become aroused and use your hands to explore your body. Take knowledge about yourself to your partner and guide him or her to pleasure you. Penetration is only one part of being sexual.