What men want

By admin
25 November 2013

“My boyfriend of many years expects me to give him a blow job but refused to go down on me. I would love him to do it every time we have sex. Please help.” – Nosipho, Mthatha

A real man answers

Who: Monde Kapa

Age: 26, but would like to be 22.

Marital status: Extremely single

“This is the era of ama50/50. If he expects a blow job, he should also kiss the lady down there. I have no problem going down on a woman. It’s part of making both of us feel good. Some guys have a negative attitude about a vagina but I see it as a sexy part of a woman.

“Some men refuse to do it because they don’t know what to do when they get down there. It might seem easy, but men always want to be perfect in whatever they do. They don’t want to admit they don’t know. I suggest this lady asks again for what she deserves. If he doesn’t do it, it means he’s not that into you.”