Women are sneaky! For those of you that don’t know, my wife threw me out of the house two years ago because I was a naughty boy. I casually pressed the remote control one night coming home and all my clothes were dumped on the place where I park my car. I piled all the clothes into the car and drove off to a hotel, tail between my legs. In vain I tried explaining that us men can have sex and feel absolutely nothing with some loose opportunity that arises. We can still love our wives deeply. Really, no kidding and I hope some guys will come on here and stand by me explaining this to all wives that had been cheated on. So feeling all sorry for myself I sat with my laptop in the hotel room and logged onto News24 to read the news and my eye caught the Love2Meet add and within minutes I joined the wildest ride of my life. But I don’t want to talk about the wild ride today. About 5 months ago I got a message from “Kinky One”. Before I replied to the message, I read her profile and of course it spoke right to my horny heart! She was separated from her husband and awaiting divorce. My experience taught me that these separated women are the easiest prey. They so desperately want to get back at the “cheating dog” and the revenge is of course another man to show the ex she still has the goodies. But “Kinky One” didn’t post a picture. Her profile was private and her pictures were only visible by invitation. I tried in vain for months to convince her to let me see her pictures, but she refused. She said we should first get to know each other better because she doesn’t want her looks to be the catalyst. She promised me she isn’t too bad looking. I became addicted to “Kinky One”. She spoke my language. We spent hours using the instant message facility on the service. She told me all about the disgusting dog she is divorcing and I told her about the woman with a heart of stone, I was divorcing. When I had the kids for weekends, I would sit for hours and tell her about my two cute sons. She would then just say her kids were with the dog she is divorcing. I advised her how to screw the dog she was divorcing. I told her all the legal tricks to ruin this dog financially. The best part of three months went by and I stopped seeing other women altogether. I couldn’t wait to get back to my apartment at night so I can talk to “Kinky One”. I fell hopelessly in love with her. I begged nonstop to meet her but she said she is not meeting me until I had my final divorce. I explained that our house has to be transferred into my wife’s name before the divorce could go through and that it could take months. So on and on we discussed marriage and the problems with marriage. I would lash out at women for being devious and she would calm me down and paint me the other side of the coin. Never in my wildest dreams did I suspect what was going to hit me. My wife’s biggest worry has always been that I would expose the kids to multiple women. She insisted that I don’t get visiting rights or access to the kids other than under her supervision. But until I signed the final divorce settlement there wasn’t much she could do. So she created a Love2Meet profile to check on our kids when they were with me. I never knew I was talking to my own wife! On a certain Saturday night I had put the kids to bed. The little one wanted his mother and I had a quite a job getting him asleep. I was totally torn about what I had caused my kids. So when they eventually were asleep I went to the PC to cry my lonely song about how I messed up my family to “Kinky One”. I told her how sick I was of being alone and begged her to come to my apartment. I explicitly said I didn’t want sex; I just want to hold her and somehow feel what it is like having a “home” again. It was so much easier saying things to a blank profile in Cyber space than displaying the hard headedness I displayed during arguments in our marriage. I didn’t have to win the argument with “Kinky One”. So this particular Saturday night the breakthrough came. “Kinky One” said we could meet. She said I had to drop the kids with my wife the next Sunday night and could then come over to her. I asked for her address and then I went ice cold when she replied. It was our address and then she opened the profile pictures for me. I piled our sleeping kids into the car and raced back home. Charles Dumbwin said something to me I will remember forever. I wouldn’t fully understand myself until I sat for hours thinking about his words. He said. Young boy asked his grandfather a question about the strength of his soul. The grandfather says: Within each man, there are two wolves, one good, the other evil. These two wolves are constantly at war with each other, battling, fighting, and trying to dominate your soul. So the grandson says, ”So if they are at war, then who wins?" Grandfather, “whichever one you feed”.