Durban mom furious after sex tape leak

2012-11-12 09:56

Durban - A Muslim mother is furious after a homemade sex video made for her fiancé went viral on the internet.

The 35-year-old Durban beauty salon owner told the TimesLive that she had hired a private investigator and had put up a R10 000 reward to find out how the video and nude pictures of her had got out.

The woman said the video was on her fiancé’s cellphone and that she often sent him naked pictures of herself when he was abroad.

While overseas a month ago, she received the video clip from an unknown address and relatives called her to say three nude pictures had gone viral.

"The video has gone to Durban, Johannesburg and even Cape Town. People have been sending it by e-mail and on cellphone applications such as WhatsApp," she said.

She later found out her and her fiancé’s e-mail account had been hacked.

"I feel that I did nothing wrong because [the explicit exchanges were] shared between consenting adults.

"But obviously the community will think that what we did is wrong and will talk about it - our privacy has been violated."

She has suffered harassment and indecent proposals and said she planned to lay criminal charges.

  • camp.j - 2012-11-12 10:08

    RESPECT! :)

      andre.vandeventer.16 - 2012-11-14 07:14

      Who else but her partner/fiance could have leaked it out?

  • willem.leroux.75 - 2012-11-12 10:13

    IS this an advert or a complaint.....

  • emmett.wesleygarrett - 2012-11-12 10:13

    If you can't take it, don't make it.

  • pjbadenhorst - 2012-11-12 10:27

    They didn't put a link to the offending video and pics in the article. How are we supposed to judge wether or not her outrage is justified without being able to see for ourselves.

      fussed.anderson - 2012-11-13 15:33

      Been folowing and been back 6 times and still no links. Dam it

  • vaughan.greene - 2012-11-12 10:31

    Hows all the porn adverts attached to this advert, Hectic

  • luytster - 2012-11-12 10:38

    She cant be real muslim if she's up to this nonsence. Not even allowed to be alone with a man who's not a close relative.

      enlightened.bowman - 2013-01-21 13:34

      Islam is just like all other religions,or are you telling me that the cardinals at the vatican the bugger little boys are not true christians? Ofcourse they are

  • eyesears.handsfeet - 2012-11-12 10:40

    "Mom" I sincerely hope that the bastards can be caught who hacked your accounts and that they will be brought to justice. This can only be an inside job. As for "sharing" yourself with your loved one, just be careful in the future. Sometimes words said are better than pictures and I am sure that your loved one will not mind.

  • sakkiem - 2012-11-12 10:43

    give us the link

  • richard.hipkin - 2012-11-12 10:44

    Ooops. Oh well, it's out there, nothing more you can do about that..

  • Erna - 2012-11-12 10:46

    Silly girl!

  • Erna - 2012-11-12 10:46

    When will people learn that social networking is not private.

      Cherri - 2012-11-13 13:46

      Social networking isn't, your e-mail account should be though!

      mike.bundy.73 - 2012-11-13 14:53

      It was a private email account that was allegedly hacked

  • simakoko - 2012-11-12 10:52

    \Love them all but trust no one\

  • denton.estment - 2012-11-12 10:54

    Play with fire you are going to get burnt. Take pictures and send them someone will hack and you pay the price of embarrasment

  • JanGrimbeek - 2012-11-12 10:58

    Nope, not hacked, your bf left his cellphone on the bed at his "skelmpies" place oversea when he went to the loo, they used your film as guideline for their own cicks and fun and then also post it on the net as a joke. Don't look further than your own fiance to find the culprit LOL.

  • sello.r.molefe - 2012-11-12 11:03

    shame i hop its worth trouble on investigators... love to c styles been pull off

  • bob.small.7547 - 2012-11-12 11:04

    You play with fire.....You can get burned!

      JanGrimbeek - 2012-11-12 11:48

      Is that what they call those "playing things" nowadays ?

  • thulani.sparks - 2012-11-12 11:10

    How weird is that...her husbands computer conveniently got hacked???...yea ryt

  • theMichaelHawthorne - 2012-11-12 11:23

    Omw word use capital letters as well as odd characters like * or @ or # or & and you will never be hacked in a 1000 years

  • seeleyk2 - 2012-11-12 11:25

    Hunt down dose perpetrators,dis is a very cruz violation of privacy,no1 wud subscribe to sumthn as degrading as dat

  • theMichaelHawthorne - 2012-11-12 11:25

    No 72 virgins for you too only michael jackson for him and ellen degen for her lol

  • theMichaelHawthorne - 2012-11-12 11:27

    Rule No 1 don't show face...

      tony.angel.3975 - 2012-11-12 11:38

      What "face" ?

  • andy.mku.9 - 2012-11-12 11:52

    according to muslim culture she must be stoned to death

      TheCatalyst - 2012-11-12 22:04

      Andy, that's a terrifying tribal or 'cultural' tradition; designed, like most male ordained oppression is, to subjugate and control human beings. If you read the Holy Quran, or did some unbiased, objective research; you will find that Islam never ever considers nor condones stoning.

      TheCatalyst - 2012-11-12 22:20

      Andy, that's a terrifying tribal or 'cultural' tradition; designed, like most male ordained oppression is, to subjugate and control human beings. If you read the Holy Quran, or did some unbiased, objective research; you will find that Islam never ever considers nor condones stoning.

  • shubnam.patel - 2012-11-12 12:53

    Agh it is so obvious lady that your fiance sent it to someone..

  • maureen.churchill.9 - 2012-11-12 13:05

    Oh dear! another one released accidently on purpose.

  • zimbobwe.mugabe - 2012-11-12 13:49

    Argh news24 what is wrong with you??? Me and mr patel were having so much fine and you spoilt it now. We were learning a great deal from each other.

  • Riaan Venter - 2012-11-12 13:55

    @simon both lmao!!

  • mfumbayelangabi.silwane - 2012-11-12 14:05

    you shouild know by now that cell phones,internet ,websites emails facebook whatsup etc have no privacy.sorry though your upbring might be questioned. Who taught you to do these things?

  • toni.k.mcquillen - 2012-11-12 14:34

    Each to their own, but in all fairness no one has the right to spread private videos on the internet. Although one does need to be careful about things like this.

  • shubnam.patel - 2012-11-12 14:44

    Mr mugabe as-s*face....its mis btw..and news24 way to go ...I now see its you guys who are startin all this islamicphobia and racism..

      zimbobwe.mugabe - 2012-11-12 15:10

      I liked that one were you said we dance around the bed like we do around the fire before we 'do it'... I'm gonna give it to you that was hilarious... I am still in stiches!!! I can picture myself going round and round the bed and singing for the ancestors...hahahaaaa!!! But I'm gonna disagree with you my face is a bit ugly but it's not @ss like!!!

      rodney.bevan.58 - 2012-11-12 15:21

      It's not your face so much as your brain that's @as like bob, you continue to show yourself in that light every time you post.

      zimbobwe.mugabe - 2012-11-12 15:35

      @rodney ahahahaaaaa don't make me laugh boetman. There is nothing wrong with my post I jsut write the truth in black and white!!! Sometimes we have to agree to disagree... we don't see the world from the same angle. Your views or my views might be skewed but we have a right to raise our opinions.

      kenpeg.dawson - 2012-11-13 13:42

      Mugabe why must black and white come into the question.

      zimbobwe.mugabe - 2012-11-13 15:28

      Want to show I'm not racist.

      heidi.lundie - 2012-11-13 23:54

      zimbobwe.mugabe :) Don't bring racism into this white you black and white remark. For the record your both screwed!

      zimbobwe.mugabe - 2012-11-14 11:07

      @heidi HUH????

  • rudzanimulaudzi.mulaudzi - 2012-11-12 17:06

    Your husband loves u too much, he is not embarrased by all this but u do. He is the one who was suppose to try and find out what went wrong. I never saw it but u must be a very beutiful woman, dont be ashame send your husband other photo thats the way to spice up ur relationship.

  • parys.fotograaf - 2012-11-12 19:32

    She was free to make the choice, but is now rightly is a slave to the consequences.

  • eameer - 2012-11-12 21:02

    Why does it have to say Muslim. .?

      WarrenStylin - 2012-11-14 15:13

      I gather it's because that is her religion \ Belief \ faith .... and basically to sensationalize the story due the fact that Islam in the media has been seen as intolerant to women, by printing stories of women in places like Saudi Arabia being jailed for getting raped. Imagine the headline...Atheist's nude photo's leaked. Not the same tone.

  • shubnam.patel - 2012-11-13 00:59

    Mugabe for the last time I'm not a ya sory can't grow balls and let not talk bout the one went round imaginin out loud wat muslim ppl say during intercors...why don't you be the the MAN and stop fightin with I think its time YOU grew some balls cos real men don't fight with women...or is it that you hav sumin against em hey?hmm I knew I was right wen I pikt out the hint of feminism in you ;)

      zimbobwe.mugabe - 2012-11-13 07:56

      You have just realised now that you are a woman... ooh cry me a river!!! When you were calling me an insecure girl and @ssface you didn't behave like a lady hence you don't deserve to be treated like one. You thought you were macho by insulting me and when it gets hot in the kitchen you cry out loud.... no no no... just get outta kitchen and play somewhere else. This is a forum if you think you can spew some stupid bile and expect people to keep quiet bcos you are a woman you are leaving in la la land. Wake up and smell the coffee!!! If you can't take it don't dish it!!! Mayeb were you come from is acceptable to insult your men folk and they keep quiet and hide!!!

  • katlegojones.malemela - 2012-11-13 07:24

    Hehehehe, naughty naughty, ya been caught with your knickers in a knot, lmao *hides face*

  • fanie.essgee - 2012-11-13 07:43

    Charge them royalty fees..... so what we saw you naked, have seen lots of that.......

  • caine.abel.75 - 2012-11-13 07:46

    Once in cyber space then in hackers paradise

  • patrick.pillay - 2012-11-13 07:46

    What happened to your Burkha ?

      julie.khan3 - 2012-11-13 09:19

      Patrick.A good question.

  • mfanah.radebe - 2012-11-13 07:53

    yerrr yho yho If you also like sending your fiance or who ever dc naked photos of yours think now.\r\nBut no it not good,who ever did dc ai shame.\r\nBut you will never know maybe it hiz chick''umakhwapheni''

  • laura.levatte - 2012-11-13 07:55

    Cannot believe some of these comments. There's nothing wrong or immoral in what she did, not like she was sending the pics to a random stranger. Just a bit of fun between two consenting adults who are in a relationship. The fact that she is muslim should not be brought up I mean really christians have sex before marriage dont they ? Nobody brings up their religion when a sex tape or nude pics are leaked. Wont judge peeps for watching porn - whatever floats your boat - but to want to watch or look at images of someone who never intended them for the general public is disgusting, have some respect people !

  • francois.dames.7 - 2012-11-13 08:19

    ISO is still a virgin and probably will never have sex...because it is gross...tsk tsk tsk

  • ntokozoe - 2012-11-13 08:26

    it will pass, sorry mama

  • julie.khan3 - 2012-11-13 08:49

    She obviously disobeyed Divine laws.Laws of the Almighty!!there is a price to pay in this world and the hereafter.

  • flynn.govender - 2012-11-13 08:50

    They did not do anything wrong, they made the video for themselves and not to benefit from it. Unfortunately, someone hacked into the email - they have to live life with it now. Yes, people will talk which will be difficult for this couple as they did not mean for anyone to see this video, this video was made for their eyes only.

  • julie.khan3 - 2012-11-13 08:55

    Hi Flyn.Islam .No sex before marriage.U cannot be in the company of a strange man alone.She violated it and unfortunately has to pay a price.Hope a lesson to all ...the naive,innocent,the young teens ,etc People are spiteful and will do anything for money to release the videos.I do feel very sorry for the lady involved.She was not smart enough for her guy.

  • diana.gill.18 - 2012-11-13 09:10

    These "ladies" should think with their head first when taking sex video of themselves. You wanted to be a beginner porn star why you complaining now after gaining some fame?

  • christopher.m.lowe - 2012-11-13 09:18

    Don't you just hate it when this happens? Silly woman.

  • rohin.jadin - 2012-11-13 12:55

    I agree, this woman should be looking more closely at her fiance. Joe Soap's emails don't just get hacked - don't believe it. it sucks cause once those videos are out there, they'll always be out there, and you'll never know when they come back to haunt you. I just hope it doesn't land up on her kid's phones. That would be embarrassing and traumatic for them.

  • amanda.terblans - 2012-11-13 13:10

    ewwww risky business, very embarassing for the lady involved I can imagine the drama she will be getting from her family and community ... never mind perhaps tell them its photo shopped and they put her head on another body LOL

  • motlalepula.sompane - 2012-11-13 13:47

    SOOOOO, is she gonna get stoned to death?

      thabang.t.makgalemele - 2012-11-13 23:12

      Lol tltltltl CLASSIC!

      jowza1 - 2012-11-15 11:15

      judging from news reports,stoning,burning,raping is more in your culture

  • jacques.heydenrych - 2012-11-13 14:33

    you go girl