4 ways you can save big on your dream wedding


Here are some tips to help you take the financial sting out of the ceremonial tail

It’s not called your big day for nothing. Deciding to get married is one of the biggest decisions you’ll make in your life and whether you’re having a church wedding or a traditional African wedding, it can be expensive.

Traditionally, the bride’s family has been expected to cover most of the wedding costs, but couples are increasingly choosing to pay for their own weddings, and they’ve become more flexible about who pays for what.

According to a report by the International Academy of Wedding and Event Planning, 68% of couples now fund most of the expenses for their wedding themselves.

You can of course choose to make it as big or as small as you want, but whatever you choose to do, figuring out how you’ll pay for it is an important part of making the event as happy and stress-free as possible.


The very first thing you need to do is talk to your partner about the kind of wedding the two of you want. Different expectations can cause problems, so the sooner this is discussed, the better.

Saving for a wedding takes time and financial strategizing, so engaged couples need to talk about the details the venue, décor, flowers, music and photography, for a start.

The idea of a dream wedding is wonderful but make a distinction between what’s vital and what would be nice to have and be willing to compromise.

Then decide if you’re going to save for everything jointly or divide the expenses and save separately. You should also talk to your families to find out what they’ll pay for rather than assume anything.


A detailed budget and assessment of your spending is essential, says Dhashni Naidoo, programme manager for consumer education at FNB. You can only see how much you’re able to save each month towards your goal once you do this.  “Look at any wasteful and unnecessary expenses,” she says.

“Takeaways, entertainment and clothing, for example, are areas where you could redirect funds towards savings.” Whenever you’re saving for something, especially something big, having a detailed budget and sticking to it is essential.


“Saving for your wedding should be carefully planned to avoid getting into debt to cover a shortfall when the day arrives,” Dhashni says. There are many factors to consider how much you’ll need, the amount you can save every month to reach this goal, and the time you have to do it.

Before you pick an investment product or savings vehicle, think about when you’ll need the money and what returns you expect, says Mthobisi Mthimkhulu, a team leader in the direct and private client team at Allan Gray investment management company.

A notice account is a good idea, Dhashni says, as it means you don’t have immediate access to the money. Having to give the bank 30 days’ notice before you can use the money forces you to plan well and is likely to prevent you from dipping into it for other things.

Mthobisi points out that there are plenty of saving options, including investing in unit trusts or trading in shares. Saving with a bank is probably the simplest option, he adds, because while the returns from a unit trust or share trading might be higher, so is the risk. “You deposit money, and the bank promises you a certain level of return after a specified time,” he says. If you’re saving for lobola as well as the wedding, you could open a savings account specifically for that.


Putting away money each month can be a challenge, so make it easier for yourself and stay on track by arranging automatic monthly payments from your transactional account into whatever savings vehicle you’re using. “If you lack self-discipline, manual transfers aren’t advisable,” Dhashni says. “It’s too easy to be tempted to skip a month. So, make use of stop orders or scheduled payments on your banking app.”


There’s no clear answer to this question as it depends on a variety of factors and comes down to what a couple wants. It could be anything from a small beach wedding with just a few friends and family to an extravaganza of a reception with huge flower arrangements on every table and 120 guests. So, every couple’s budget will be different. It’s all about how much you need to spend to get what you want.

Here’s a general guide to how wedding costs are allocated, according to the wedding planning website theknot.com: 50% for the venue, including hire costs, food and alcohol 30% for the cake, photography, music, flowers and décor, 10% for wedding attire and accessories 5% for invitations and table gifts as well as 5% for miscellaneous or unforeseen costs.





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