“I am 26 years old and I’ve been in love with a man for two months. He told me that he does not know what is happening between himself and his former girlfriend. She found out he was seeing me and told his parents about me. Now his parents hate me. After that, my boyfriend and his “ex” called on me to tell me it is over between us. I don’t believe that because I know deep down he does love me. He talks about me to his friends all the time. He sometimes asks me to call him and when I call, we talk nicely on the phone. I am confused about the whole situation. Please help me.” – Confused, KwaZulu-Natal Move! Expert advice
This is really confusing for a young woman. The fact that this man called on you with his other girlfriend simply means he loves her and is not prepared to hurt her. And there is no way his parents can force him to love a woman he is not interested in.
If he really loves you, why doesn’t he call you? Talking to his friends about you doesn’t necessarily mean he loves you. This man is boosting his ego by having more than one affair. If he really loves you, he would call you and meet you openly.
You are still young, so I suggest you forget about this man and move on with your life. There is someone more suitable out there waiting for you, and you will not meet him if you concentrate so much on someone who is not interested in you. Good luck.