Find it hard to forgive


I’m a woman of 28 and find it hard to forgive. I take everything personally, and hold a grudge against people who upset me. I no longer have friends or get along with my family because of this. Deep down,I’m a kind, caring person. But whenI’m upset, I lose it and act to spite them. Please help me deal with my anger; I don’t want to end up alone.

Anonymous, Randburg     Move! Expert advice

Lack of forgiveness is very destructive. Write down your feelings to process them. Speak to your family about your problem, or seek professional help. A psychologist will be able to help you figure out what triggers this and how best to cope with it. You can also speak to a pastor or counselor at your church.

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