Anonymous from Mangaung wrtes:
I’m a 22-year-old guy. I’m still
a virgin. I have a girlfriend
who wants us to have sex. She has
started performing oral sex on me,
and that’s the only thing I seem to
be interested in. Have I now lost my
virginity? I’m scared of having sex.
Dr Eve answers:
You can enjoy oral sex. You can
also still explore more before
you rush into penetration.
By the way, I hope you are performing
oral sex on your girlfriend too.
Technically, you are still a virgin.
Losing your virginity happens when
you have your first penetrative experience.
When you’re ready for intercourse,
make sure you use a condom.