Anonymous from Rustenburg:
I’m a 45-year-old single man who is in love with a 43-yearold married woman. I have never loved any woman like this and I’m prepared to die for her.
Sis Naledi responds:
An obsession is an unhealthy preoccupation with something and it is often irrational. It may not be wise to get so attached to a married person as such relationships are risky. Talk to her and find out if you have a common goal about your relationship. You may be very
disappointed to find that she doesn’t feel the same way about you.