Anonymous from Mabopane writes:
I’m 32 and my girlfriend
wants us to get married.
I keep telling her that I don’t have
money for lobola, but she doesn’t
understand. What can I do?
Sis Naledi answers:
Never get into a marriage because
someone else is putting
you under pressure to do so.
You need to be ready to commit.
You have to be financially stable to
maintain a healthy marriage.