Anonymous from Durban writes:
I’m a 31-year-old man who
is married to a woman who
is also 31. We have a beautiful child
together. I have a problem of early
ejaculation and my wife has now lost
interest in sex.
I have tried my best to satisfy her,
but it’s not working. This is causing
her to cheat. Please help.
Dr Eve answers:
Early ejaculation is usually as a result of a man feeling
anxious about their sexual performance.
You get scared before sex and automatically ejaculate
quickly because of your fear.
Try to get your wife back into bed and ask her to work with you to gain
control of your ejaculation.
Stay calm and focused during sex, even if you ejaculate too quickly, keep playing with her.
Over time, you will settle down and your wife will not cheat if you talk about this.