HELP: I don't enjoy bonking with him anymore

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I am in a serious relationship with a man that I’ve loved for a very long time and we only started having sex last year.

It was really good at first because I got aroused before we get into it. But now I don’t know what he does.

And the worst part is that I don’t even reach an orgasm. I think he’s starting to notice that I fake it and I’m worried it will draw us apart.

ANONYMOUS, EMLAZI

Consider what is happening in the relationship that could be inhibiting you from

getting aroused.

Often times high expectations when one is in love makes sex complicated and tense. You

really want to please the partner, and this may make you freeze up.

How about you being bold and show him your arousal cues. He will like it.

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