Anonymous from Umlazi writes:
I’m a 28-year-old man in love with a yellow bone girl. When I have sex with her, I
ejaculate fast but this has never happened to me before. I used to date a dark-skinned girl and I never ejaculated fast. Could I be ejaculating fast because I love my current girlfriend more or does skin complexion matter?
Dr Eve responds:
Skin colour only matters if you let it matter. It sounds as if you love this woman a
lot. It happens that when a man really loves a woman, he tries to impress her. This can make you anxious. And when you are anxious, you will ejaculate quickly. You need to slow down, be confident and breathe deeply. This will delay your ejaculation when you are making love to her.