Anonymous from Ga-Rankuwa writes:
I’m 35 years old and have
been married for ?ve years. My
husband loves me and I love him
too. We have a lovely daughter.
The problem is that I don’t reach
orgasm when I make love to my
husband. I also have a toyboy
who always satis?es me. Why is
it that my husband cannot give
me the same satisfaction?
Dr Eve answers:
Your story is a good
example of how sexual
satisfaction is not just
about technique. Your heart is
involved. Maybe you should talk
to your husband about what
you like in bed and what you
don’t. Find a way to gently show
him how you like to be pleased
during love-making. Be careful
not to make him feel like he
might be the problem as this
might affect your marriage.
