Anonymous from Bloemfontein writes:
I’m 23 and my boyfriend is
26. We have been dating for six
years now. My problem is that I
don’t love him anymore and have
fallen for his cousin. I had also
cheated on him with his cousin.
I think I love his cousin because
he treats me well. Please help.
Sis Naledi answers:
If you lost love for him, let
him know and break up
with him in dignity. What
you are doing is not safe, you are
messing up with people’s family
relationships and that cousin
surely has no respect for you.
You may be excited by a new
relationship and soon it will
backfire on you. If there are things
that make you unhappy with your
boyfriend, rather address them
and try to work it out.