HELP: "I have fallen in love with my man's cousin"


Anonymous from Bloemfontein writes: 

I’m 23 and my boyfriend is

26. We have been dating for six

years now. My problem is that I

don’t love him anymore and have

fallen for his cousin. I had also

cheated on him with his cousin.

I think I love his cousin because

he treats me well. Please help.

Sis Naledi answers:

If you lost love for him, let

him know and break up

with him in dignity. What

you are doing is not safe, you are

messing up with people’s family

relationships and that cousin

surely has no respect for you.

You may be excited by a new

relationship and soon it will

backfire on you. If there are things

that make you unhappy with your

boyfriend, rather address them

and try to work it out.

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