Anonymous from Kwamashu writes:
I’ve been in a long distance
relationship with my cousin
for two years. He has a child and
he’s still with the mother of his
child. I really love him and he says
he loves me too and wants to be
with me, but he sometimes only
texts me after a while and calls
after a few months. Do you think
I’m wasting my time?
Sis Naledi answers:
In the first place, you should
not be dating your cousin.
This has serious implications
for you and your families. It
sounds as if he is committed to
the other woman and his child.
You are setting yourself up for
disappointment. Your cousin
knows that what you are doing is
wrong. You should stop before it