Anonymous from Umlazi writes:
I’m a 29-year-old woman who is dating a 30-year-old man. I realised that he did not break
up with his previous girlfriend. He says he doesn’t want to hurt her. I don’t want to lose him. I want to own him. Please help.
Sis Naledi responds:
You can never own a human being. I can never succeed in helping you with that. However, I can help you to own yourself and not to lose yourself. He cares enough not to hurt the
other woman, but not enough to avoid hurting you. You are setting yourself up for a heartache. If he cares enough to love and respect you, he won’t put you through that.