I’m always wet


“I'm suffering from lower abdominal pains and it causes me to always be wet. My boyfriend complains that I'm always wet and he thinks that I'm seeing somebody else. My sex life is also affected in a big way. I have been to the gynaecologist and I have not been helped.” – PE Zondi   Move! Expert advice

I am not sure how your lower abdominal pains are causing you wetness. Maybe the two conditions are separate. In other words, your lower abdominal pains need to be treated by a doctor. I am sure they have nothing to do with sexual excitement.

Your wetness during sex means that you are sexually excited by your man. I have heard some men say if a woman is wet it means she is sleeping around. This is not true. Your wetness is a compliment to him, because it shows you are enjoying yourself. You have to educate him about this, but first you have to believe it yourself. You have to believe that wetness is not an illness. Maybe your abdominal pains are a sign of bad health. So separate the issues and learn to relax and enjoy sex with each other.

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