"Does he want me or sex?" - Sis Dolly answers your questions

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I’m a 35-year-old woman who dated a guy while he was dating the mother of his baby.

They were renting together at the time but now they’re no longer an item and aren’t staying together.

He called me to say he wanted us to try again. However, the problem is that he’s a party animal and calls me only when he wants sex.

I asked him if he wants me just as a sexual partner but he says I’m complaining too much and that I’ll end up being single for the rest of my life.

Sis Dolly answers 

His answer to your question should give you an indication of where you stand with this man.

If he is unable to reassure you about the kind of relationship you have with him, I wonder if it’s wise to even bother with him or lose sleep over him.

You have to set standards for your life and not allow men to use and abuse you just because you are scared of being single.

Take a stand and say, “Enough and no more!” There are other fish in the sea, and you’ll find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.

You won’t find the person you deserve if you keep settling for less.

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