I'm 29 and have been with a married man for nine months. I love him and he wants to take me as a second wife.
But whenever we're together his wife calls, I feel jealous and my mood changes.
Sometimes he snaps and tells me I know he has a wife, that he loves both of us and I must accept as she won't go away.
It's difficult because I love him, but I feel I'm wasting my as they have two kids and I have none.
I'm asking myself whether it's worth the pain.
Sis Dolly answers
Is it worth the pain? Only you can answer that.
When you decided to be in this relationship you knew what you were getting into.
In a polygamous marriage, if you can't handle him talking to his wife on the phone now, do you think you'll be able to handle it when its her turn to be with him?
How long will you be content being second fiddle.
It's time to make a decision, sooner rather than later.