Some men collect exes as trophies, some women do it for validation – expert on being pals with an ex

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AKA and DJ Zinhle are examples of exes who appear to be on good terms. They're pictured here with their daughter, Kairo, during the AKA Orchestra On The Square at Time Square Sun Arena on 17 March 2019 in Pretoria.
AKA and DJ Zinhle are examples of exes who appear to be on good terms. They're pictured here with their daughter, Kairo, during the AKA Orchestra On The Square at Time Square Sun Arena on 17 March 2019 in Pretoria.
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What is the reason – why be friends with an ex? 

This was the question many people were asking when a recent post showing DJ Zinhle and her ex, rapper AKA, appearing friendly towards each other surfaced online.

It's not that outrageous an idea though, according to expert Paula Quinsee. 

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