The Topbilling presenter spoke to the Fresh Breakfast team and opened up about the split from her ex husband and how it was amicable.
"I think that it is growth. It's understanding that it's okay when things don't work out. And it's also spilling yourself and everything that you have into something. And when it doesn't work because you've given everything that you had, you don't have any regrets about it. You don't have any "what if's" or whatever. So when you move on, it's completely over and you wish the other person the best," she explained.
Concerning what people would say or how they would react to her decision Ayanda believes that at the end of the day she has to answer to herself and be honest with herself.
"I just looked within. It always come back to knowing yourself. When I go home, there is nobody there but me and I have to answer to myself. Am I happy or am I not? I had to be truthful to myself and the truth is I just wasn't happy in that space so I needed to go," she said.