Moshe Ndiki releases public statement on alleged abuse allegations

Moshe Ndiki and Phelo Bala. (PHOTO: GETTY IMAGES/GALLO IMAGES).
Moshe Ndiki and Phelo Bala. (PHOTO: GETTY IMAGES/GALLO IMAGES).

Following news reports this past weekend, which claimed that there was trouble in presenter Moshe Ndiki and his fiancé, Phelo Bala’s relationship, Moshe finally released a statement on the matter.

The reports which appeared in gossip tabloid, Sunday Sun stated that Phelo was allegedly assaulted by Moshe with a candle stand. They reported that the musician had a bleeding gash on the head that needed stitching.

Taking to his social media, Moshe posted the statement which did not outright deny the claims.

Addressing the article by Sunday Sun, Moshe confirmed that there are protection order applications that have been made.

“The article made a number of allegations regarding alleged incidents between my Phelo and I and the current existence of protection order applications,” the statement read.

“These are matters of a private nature and I've been advised because there are court proceedings, I cannot reveal anything however at this present time I would like to state that I have no way abused Phelo and I have proof to this effect”.

According to the Sunday Sun, the alleged incident took place at Moshe and Phelo's Johannesburg home in May and the  argument was over alcohol consumption.  In the court papers, which were submitted in June, Phelo stated that he was beaten with a candle stand at home and went to Olivedale Hospital to get stitches.

This Moshe denies doing in his statement.

“Anyone who has dealt with domestic violence knows how difficult it is to speak about their experiences and the shame attached to being a victim. With questions I myself have faced and comments like why did it take you so long to say something you are so loud everywhere else about everything why not this? you look and sound emotionally strong, how did it happen to you [sic],” the statement read.

Moshe then alleged that Phelo gets aggressive when he has alcohol.

“I am comforted in the knowledge that our friends and family know of his aggressive nature when he has had drinks and I from my own lived experiences.

According to reports, the pair were meant to appear in court. The "Rea Tsotsella" presenter was allegedly meant to explain to the magistrate why the order should not be made permanent but instead he applied for an counter interim order.

In the paper’s he allegedly claimed,

"I feel unsafe around him. He's emotionally abusive, manipulative and controlling. Just two days ago at my friend's house, he beat me up when I told him it's over. He took the phone I was using".

Moshe additionally claimed that over the past few months the relationship had become abusive with Phelo assaulting him on several occasions.

He claimed that Phelo had an alcohol problem and always starts fights after he has too much to drink. He also alleged that Phelo is extremely jealous.

In his public statement Moshe asked for privacy during his personal matter.

“I'm deeply saddened there has been a violation of our private mediation on this matter , it is For these reasons that I choose not to expose our private differences at this stage, I kindly ask that I be afforded time and space to deal with these trying times with those closest to me, whilst processing what's going on”.

“I would like to assure that this is not my nature and I would rather like to speak about this once I'm ready emotionally if at all I choose to speak on it”, he concluded.

Read the statement here: 

Attempts to reach Phelo Bala for comment were not successful at the time of publishing.