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12 Feb 2010

I had this fantasy that becomes a reality now.<br>I loved it in the beginning but now want to stop. I believe that I m addicted to it because I can' t stop.

I married and fantasies about black woman.
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Ageing and Sexuality expert
Ageing and Sexuality expert

01 Jan 0001

Fantasies are a wonderful way to stimulate one's imagination and create arousal. However, if as in your situation, it begins to interfere with your everyday life , then the fantasy is no longer fun. I recommend you speak with a sex therapist who will help you understand this fantasy and manage fantasies generally.
Many people feel a sense of betrayal to a partner when they fantasies - and maybe worse when the fantasy is forbidden in every day life - such as a person of a different race, religion or cultural group to your own.
Go get professional help to stop your suffering
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