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07 Feb 2006

a bit confused is it worth it?
im involved with a man who isseeing another woman. I knew about this and he told me that he is working his way out of the relationship. Now he doesnt want to show public affection only his friend does that and people now believe that im seeing his friend. I have to beg him to come visit me and when he does he parks his car at the backyard and comes at awkward hours like 11:30 at night.The sad part is after 7 months he is still seeing his girlfriend. Please help is it worth it.

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Its just never a good idea to see anyone who is maried or already in another relationship. Not only is it unfair to the other person with whom they are in such a relationship, but its unfair to you, as you describe with the secrecy and subterfuge. And he's stil, seeing his other gf after 7 months ? Surely that's not worth it. He;s probably getting all that he wants already, and there's unlikely to be any more left for you
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