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24 May 2004

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Cybershrink

As were reading in my previous posting that my husband is having affair. On Saturday night he came to my room and we had sex it was there was something like a spark when we did it he was holding me so tight and yesterday afternoon we did it again. Why is he doing it to me.And he tells me I must tell anyone that we are doing it. But he still visit that woman he wasnt happy yesterday when he came from her before one. He went their at nine o clock. He was very quiet. We do not fight anymore, we speak a little bit. I do not asked him where is going and about that woman. His friends told me that she is very ugly and dirty, I am more beautiful than she is. How can he go for such a woman. That woman is also drinking and my husband do not drink anymore. Cybershrink what must I do I really love my husband and my children love him to much. He look every time at me without saying a word. he is still staying by me and the children but we are sleeping seperate.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Suzette, let's see what other readers think. Whatever he's doing with you sounds like it's all about him, and all about sex and power, and nothing to do with love, and nothing to do with beauty. It isn't loveable, and it isn't fair. And if he is still having sex with the other woman, he could be exposing you to risks of STD / HIV, as well.
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