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20 Apr 2004

Am i being a total cow?
I've never had a boyfriend before although I am quite attractive. I recently started dating this guy who i'm not sexually attrated to but rather attracted to his personality.

The problem is my friends keep making fun of him when he's not around and they keep telling me i'm way too goodlooking to be with him. I just don't think so. I'm not a goddess! He's a really good person who has a wonderful heart and treats me like i'm a person, not just a pair of boobs. I really respect that about him.

How do i tell my friends to lay off of him with out being bitchy?? I don't want to send him packing just because they're being nasty.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear tc,
It sounds far more as if you need a far better class of girlfriends ( and Moo to them !) than a diferent boyfriend. They sound like bubble-headed, stuck-up, arrogant little twerps. Don't even dream of sending him packing --- send them packing ! Their sort is a dime a dozen at any neighbourhood mall, he's a rarity.
They sound like the sort of immature kids who are obsessed with looks, Give it 10 or 15 years, and they'll be as ugly physically as they already are ugly in their hearts, and that gorgeous hunk they married will be fat, boring and unloving --- just as they deserve.
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