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20 Sep 2006

am i doing the right thing
Hi guys

Hope everyone is well, this is probably my last posting for a while as I have now done the unthinkable and im moving to Germany on the 06th of Oct.

I just needed some of your advise with this move. I dont have children, no husband and im a single 24 year old lady. I have now given up my job, house and car to make this move. I do have huge doubts but also need to stay positive as I know somewhere the must be a door that will open for me, i am sure that if i stick to my plan of saving, working really hard i will and should get somewhere.

Do you guys think I did the right thing, as Im not sure if you feel the same but sometimes i wake up and think to myself there must be something bigger out there for me then waking up going to work, gym and home, and every now and then go jol hard, suffer from a hangover and then spend time with my family and friends. I suppose this will start happening now as I only have a few days left and im getting cold feet. So scared I can crawl under my bed and stay there.

Any guidelines or advise would be really appreciated.
thanks guys
bella
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

We'll miss you, bella. Unthinkable indeed ! THough nothing should stop you, in GErmany, from linking in again.
In the situation you describe you are of course more free to make such a move than are most of us, and it sounds as though you have really committed yourself to doing so, such that this would not be a great stage at wich to change your mind ! getting cold feet soon before such a major move is common and normal. I'd think your chances of suceding should be high. I did something very simila when I finished matric, an have never regretted it
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