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10 Jan 2006

AM I WRONG OR INSANE
I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN FOR YEAR AND A HALF.HE WENT BEHIND MY BACK ONTO A DATING SITE MET SOMEONE AND WENT TO SEE HER BECAME FRIENDS AND IS NOW E-MAILING AND PHONING EACH OTHER HE ALSO WENT TO HAVE BRAAIS WITH HER.AFTER THAT HE ALSO WENT OUT FOR DINNER WITH SOMEONE ELSE.AFTER THAT HE WENT ONTO ONE OF THESE RUSSIAN DATING SITES WHERE YOU MEET RUSSIAN WOMAN.
HE SAID I DROVE HIM TO IT BECAUSE I DID NOT SPEND ENOUGH TIME WITH HIM.
HE DOES NOT SHARE WHAT IS HAPPENING IN HIS LIFE WITH ME BUT HE WANTS TO MARRY ME. I ASKED HIM WHY DIDN'T HE PERSUE THE OTHER WOMAN AND HE SAID THE ONE IS FAT THE OTHER ONE HAS GOT TO WIDE HIPS AND SHE SMOKE AND DRINK AND THE OTHER ONE IS IN RUSSIA.
I DO NOT TRUST HIM ANYMORE AND EVERYTIME I SEE SITUATIONS DIFFRENTLY (ESPECIALLY WITH WOMAN) FROM WHAT HE SEES IT HE CALLS ME SICK AND THAT I SHOULD GO AND SEE A SHRINK.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

You are not insane at all, but in a relationship with a slug who is behaving selfishly and badly. Don't for a moment believe his empty "you drove me to it" excuse. And don't even dream of marrying him. And don't acept his abuse when he calls you sick. You're not sick, just wronged, and deserve a real man in your life, not this low-life. Leave him and take your time to find someone worthy of you. he isn't
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