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07 Feb 2006

Anger, Anger, Anger
I have started to make peace with the idea of seperation. Last week i made the threat i made in the letter formal in an application for interdict. this normally takes a few days. I am not very serious about the interdict, but wants to get documents into the system to be able to expose the whole thing without fear of claims for defamation.

When my wife was told she went off at me and said that she will break contact but i must not think that it means the resumption of our relationship. she also has not given an answer to my "proposal" made on 29 December - what does this tell me?

Last night i got a "summons"l from her shrink to go and see her today. She also said, and this is what angered me, that my alcholism of years ago is transposing onto the situation and the lesbian relationhip is similar to my alcohol abuse. She will get the two of them together and sort it out. What a load of bullshit - and i told her so and will do so again tonight. This woman condoning a lesbian relationship that destroyed a marriage - she must also be gay or bi-sexual inclined or has no problem with it.

Sy maak waaragtig die verhouding tussen die twee af asof 'n lesbiese verhouding (een is getroud) nie so erg is as 'n verhouding met 'n ander man nie - of is ek onredelik.

I had one short session with a shrink and will make sure to attend the next one on Friday.

I am the hell in and used up - this must now end!!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like a very highly dubious comment from her shrink, who sounds unbalanced in defending the lesbian affair, and looking for excuses to excuse her client of any responsibility for her own bad choices and bad actions. I'm not sure I'd want to see such a shrink. It's perfectly reasonable indeed proper, for a shrink to be neutral as regards gay/lesbian relationships. But she is bing fiercely partisan, not neutral. And it is NOT proper for her to make fierce excuses for infidelity, or to take sides in a marital dispute without really hearing both sides. And the relationship IS infidelity / cheating, whwether with a man, woman or goat.
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