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06 Feb 2006

ATT: ANIKA & ME
Hi there,..dont know if you remember me - im the one with the bf that drowns me in attention..well, i broke up with him friday, it was terrible - we were at his flat having wine when the owner of the block of flats showed up and asked us to leave, i was stunned..turns out that he had not paid one cents rent in 3 months!!! I wanted to leave but he asked me to stay and he would explain after they leave; he explained that there are a number of things that need to be fixed and that's why he refused to pay the rent...i dont believe him, oh and he also turned it on me and crapped me out for not defending him.....??. I talked to him about making the wrong and the right choices, he got very defensive and then i realized that although im telling him about wrong choices made, im doing the exact same thing by still being there and still trying to help him grow up..so i packed up the special dinner i had planned and tried to leave..i struggle for almost an hour to get him to unlock the gate of his flat..so, its over.....man, i really know how to pick'em..
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Quite right to leave him --- to expect you to defend him in a quarrel he has with someone else, is nonsense. But if he locked the gate and wouldn't let you leave --- that's criminal conduct ! You sure do know how to pick em. Now don't let him back, nor anyone like him
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