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14 Jun 2004

Boyfriend picks me out?

Whenever my boyfriend and I are out together with friends whether at a dinner or out in a bar somewhere he always picks me out about what I say. Im not kras or a rude person and have been brought up in a good family household. My father always taught us to be youself and as long as you dont offend anyone, say how you feel. The thing is whenever we are out together he will always say "Why did you say that?" or "Dontsay this". It drives me mad! I work with people clients all day long and am not an idiot who needs to be told what to say and what not too. It seems that we always disagree about something. We get into heated discussions about politics even though we arnt polititions? I dont get it? Is it that we just opposites?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

kim, I agree with volcano, that this sounds like a really immature and over-controlling guy, of a sort that's not great material for a happy long-term relationship. His own sense of security can't be well formed yet, uif he has to stifle yours.
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