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25 Oct 2006

Breakup? HOW?

I have been trying to break up with my boyfriend since June this year.
I send him messages, but it seems he just ignores them and soon after what’s calls me and talks about other things. (How is my day, advice on where to buy a house, the weather etc).
The only thing he will say is-pls stop sending me messages like this u r hurting me.

The sad thing I only realised now, that I made a mistake by getting involved with him. First, I didn’t try to get to know him first, and soon as I got to know him realise that he is not the one I want.
Second, I also have had nothing but BIG BIG problems since I met him, and nothing has changed in 2 years, the more I further communicate with him the more they mount up..
I have tried talking to him as well but he says I bring tears to his eyes.
Guys, how do u communicate with someone that u don’t want them without hurting them and for him to understand better and let me go?????????
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01 Jan 0001

Send him a final message confirming that it is over and you want no further discussion about it, and wish him well for the rest of your life --- then change your phone numbers
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