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30 Jan 2006

Can I ?
Just have a nervous breakdown and bugger off?

I'm so tired. G&I did not discuss the work story this weekend coz it goes round and round. I spent 2 day's last week going to interviews. It's exhausting. Driving with a mapbook being on time and always being oh so oulik you know....

This place is freaking me out every day the one or the other partner is trying to get me to stay. They will get me a a bookkeeper from the other business to assist me. They will sit with the laaitjie and help him. They will give me R3000 if I can get the laaitjie to do his job. ANd and everyday "have you made up your mind " YES I HAVE "are you sure - sleep over it" and tomorrow the same old story.

I've been offered a job and it's to far and in William Nichol- I said no thanks.
I've been offered a job and it's so little pay - so I said no thanks.

Im 38 I want the RIGHT job and to stay there like my previous record (never less than 4 years) feel so bad about this 6 months here....One interviewer said "you come highly recomended" you know how nice that was to hear.....

Tomorrow I've got a 2nd interview with a company close to home and with a really straight nice boss lady...hoping to get that one.....

Or what do I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im so tired of this!

Dankie and Morning.
Ne's gone to school all happy and chirpy all's back to normal. And she's sleeping in her own bed again :-))
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hey, isn't it nice to be so greatly desired, by this company ? I'm just a bit puzzled by these interviews and then turning down the jobs --- wuldn't one be able to check before the interview and not even interview if the pay were to be too little, or the job too far away ? Let's hope tomorrow's meeting goes well. And yes, isn't it a strain being oulik for so long ? I used to find that a strain when a VIP speaker on an overseas tour --- very pleasant in many ways, but it sure gets tiring remaining adorable for too long at a stretch !
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